I hear this a lot! I grew up in a family where you did what was asked of you and didn't expect a huge woohoo afterwards from others; but you gave yourself a huge WOOHOO for it. I think we all stayed humble for it. It's something I've taught my kids. Do you best and don't worry if anyone notices because you know the truth. I know I get a lot done because I don't worry about getting that credit and I stay humble (and surprised) when I do get that credit.